The Lifestyle That I want in 20 Years.

When I am 33, my goal is to become a good and faithful servant to God, and also to be able to support a God-loving family.
In 20 years, I will have a God-loving family that consists of a loving Wife, and 2-3 kids. I believe that the two most important things will be that the family has a strong foundation in Christ and that quality time should be spent with both my wife and children. I will also be able to support the family through a great job. At the age of 33, I will have become a good and faithful servant and will continue to serve God through both ministry and helping out in the church.
That is what my goal is, and I plan on achieving it through studying hard and doing my best to apply what I learn in my life.

Trust in a Long-term Business Relationship

I think that trust is very important in a long-term business relationship. Without trust, most business relationships would not work, for having no trust would completely undermine the entire business.
Trust allows peace of mind, letting you know that you can count on the other person, that they won’t scam you. Trust lets you know that your partner will work for the business’s wellbeing. Trust makes you feel more secure, that your partner isn’t going anywhere. Trust is important for all businesses, whether small or big. It can affect the business itself, as well as its environment.
In conclusion, I think that trust is a big part of a long-term business relationship. Trust is a business’s foundation.

What Would it Take to Convince Me to Use Spreeder?

I would be convinced to use Spreeder every day if I knew how important it is to be able to read quickly. Because I now know how important speed reading is, I use Spreeder every day. Speed reading abilities are very important because they allow you to learn so much more from books and articles in a shorter time period.

Spreeder is a free online app for speed reading. By learning how to speed read, the time to read long, boring assignments can be cut in half. Instead of reading at 400 words per minute, you could learn to read at 800, or even 1000. That way, you will have much more time to do other things.

Speed reading is very important, and I would recommend it to anyone. Spreeder is a great program, and it’s free! Just copy and paste whatever you want on spreeder and adjust the speed of which you want to read it at.

 

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How to Win Friends and Influence People, by Dale Carnegie

This is my essay on how to Win Friends and Influence People, a book by Dale Carnegie. All you need to do to get people to do what you want them to do is to make them want to do it, and do make them want to do it, you have to let them find out wants in it for them. Let’s just say that you decide to go fishing, and it happens that you really like chocolate, but the fish, for some odd reason only like worms. You don’t bait your rod with chocolate, but with worms. You don’t think about what you want, but what the fish wants. You bait the hook to suit the fish. You put yourself in another’s shoes. To get people to listen to you, you have to find out what they want, to construct it according to their needs. Others just don’t care what you want, they only care about themselves.

Therefore, to make friends, you have to really care about others. Instead of asking your friend, “Hey, how was your day so far?” But just not caring, try to actually care about what they have to say. Become genuinely interested in their lives. They will love to talk about themselves. Everyone has an interesting life. But you might have never known if you have never asked. Who knows what you could find out. Some things like remembering someone’s name can really be helpful. It has been proven that someone’s name is to them the sweetest and most important sound in any language. Focus on using their name more, not just remembering it. You have to talk in terms of their interests and make them feel as if they are important.

The second point I will talk about is on how to win people to your way of thinking. First of all, you have to show respect to others opinions, not just shouting out, “No!” This can be really helpful if you are working with a group on a project. You have to begin in a friendly way and appeal to their way of thinking. Another good thing to do is to get the other person to do the talking, letting them feel as if it is their idea. Try to see things from their view. Be sympathetic to their ideas, and appeal to their nobler motives. At the end, tell them your ideas, and throw down a challenge.

Last of all, as a leader, you have to change people around you without getting them mad at you. Begin with praise and honest appreciation for what they have done, but call attention to their mistakes indirectly. Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing them. Ask them questions instead of giving them direct orders, and let the other person save face if they make a mistake. Make sure to praise every single improvement, as small as it may be. Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to, and use honest encouragement. Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.

In conclusion, It is important to show respect to other people and appeal to their wants. “How to Win Friends and Influence People,” by Dale Carnegie is a great book, and I recommend it to everyone who would like to learn to have great social skills.

Was Washington’s program of gaining social acceptance for blacks an Elitist program? Goal: 100 words.

For those who don’t know, an Elitist program is a program which is run by someone who has much more authority than the others. I think, that Washington did not run this program as an Elitist one. Washington believed in, get this, equal rights. The fact that his program was not Elitist was demonstrated in his autobiography, in where he talked about the fact that he did not like it that he had to represent all blacks. He did not like that seat of power. In his speeches, he also talked about how he was just looking for blacks to be treated as equals with whites.

 

In conclusion, I think that Washington did not set the program for gaining social acceptance for blacks as an Elitist program. Washington believed in equal rights.

Booker T. Washington, Great parts in his Autobiography

Recently I’ve been reading the autobiography of Booker T. Washington. It is a great autobiography, and I highly encourage you to read it.
One of the parts of the autobiography which I really like is where Booker decides to go to school. He was very set on going to school, and nothing could stop him. Him going to school was a big thing because, in his community, no other black had gone to school before. All the elderly blacks who thought they would never see freedom again, much less see anyone of their kind go to school,  lavished him with all kinds small gifts, Booker even said that it was almost pitiful. After a long time and perseverance, he managed to get into school and graduate.
The other part that I really liked about the autobiography is when he started his school, Tuskegee. I like how he, even though having to live in poor conditions with a small salary, decided to persevere. His school, Tuskegee taught the former black slaves that never got a chance to be educated. He emphasized hard work and cleanliness and believed that all races should be united and that no enmity should be kept against the former slave owners.
Booker T. Washington was a great guy, and we should all follow in his footsteps, to be hardworking, God-fearing men.

How should church members have tried to find out what Jesus would have done in their situations?

I’ve been studying the book, “In His Steps” by Charles Sheldon for a couple weeks, and in it, Church members start asking themselves, “What would Jesus do in my situation?”

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